Tuesday, December 22, 2009
David, the good, the bad and the legacy (Part 3)
Since this is our last reading of 2009, I thought it would be great to examine the legacy of David. Beginning in January, our church is starting a series on Legacy through the book of Kings.
Look at II Samuel 23; “These are the last words of David. The oracle of David, son of Jesse, the oracle of the man exalted by the Most High, the man anointed by the God of Jacob, Israel’s singer of songs. The Spirit of the Lord spoke through me; his word was on my tongue. The God of Israel spoke, the Rock of Israel said to me; when one rules over men in righteousness, when he rules in the fear of God, he is like the light of morning at sunrise on a cloudless morning, like the brightness after rain that brings the grass from the earth.”
I almost feel like it is unnecessary to add any commentary to the last thoughts of the King. So, I will make it brief and encourage you to read his words again. First of all, David is always clear that God called, God equipped and God moved among the people. David was just the vehicle God chose to use. But secondly, God did choose to use him. His light and connectedness to God is always the measurement of all the kings to follow.
The legacy David has left, should be ours as well. Remember who God is constantly. He is the one telling the story. David Chadwick says God is in management and we are in sales. So be faithful to reflect His character in your life and follow after him closely.
Did you know that the moon is just a big heap of dirt, but when it is facing the sun, it is brilliant? People fall in love under the moonlight. And if you faced the Son constantly and help others fall in love with him, it would be an amazing legacy. What’s your new years resolution?
Tips for Reading - (Application tip #17)
Note: This section is help for Bible Reading in general. It has been building throughout the year under the topics of Observation (what the Scripture says), Interpretation (what it means) and Application (what it means to your life). Feel free to look back over past weeks to get the whole picture.
On this last week of 2009, our last step is Application – specifically Practice.
The ultimate goal of Bible Study is practicing the truth. You can’t apply every truth you find in your study, but you can consistently apply something. You should always ask yourself, is there some area of my life for which this truth is needed? A great example is Psalm 139. Acknowledging the truth that God knows all I am doing, then praying honestly to Him so He will reveal my real motives. When I see what my motive is in a particular area, I ask God for wisdom of how to address it.
My daughters have been participating in sports this year at South Meck High School. If they don’t get enough food, this can lead to a lack of energy to finish the race. This is the same for our spiritual race. The Scriptures give us energy to run the course well.
Remember, the Word of God is the best place to receive refreshment and it is to be experienced and enjoyed again and again. Happy New Year!
Notes from David’s Journal
Here’s what I would like for all of you to do: go back and look at how David treated Absalom. Absalom, I think, was David’s choice to succeed him as king. He had many leadership qualities. He was bright, attractive, insightful and gregarious.
He also had a temper. As you do your study, look for the time Absalom lost his temper. When he did, now notice what David did NOT do to his son.
Our kids, as we raise them, are looking for two things. They want unconditional love. And, they want strict limits. Love and limits: these are the two keys to parenting, in my opinion. They are basically asking two questions over and over again:
1. Do you love me? Then, we must answer over and over again, “Yes, I love you unconditionally!”
2. May I have my own way? Then, we must answer over and over again, “No, you may not”
This love with strict limits allows children to grow up in a secure love, maturing into adulthood as God intended.
Now, back to David. He didn’t do either with Absalom! As a result, Absalom eventually led a rebellion against his father, trying to overthrow him! He didn’t respect his father, which is what often happens with children who have either uninvolved parents, or parents who have no limits and discipline in their lives. That’s why Paul exhorts fathers not to exasperate or frustrate their children, either by giving all discipline without love or all love without limits. To do one without the other frustrates a child. A part of them never develops.
David’s parenting with Absalom is a powerful reminder to all of us about the need for love with limits. The option? You may cause rebellion in the hearts of your children. Absalom is a great example of this truth.


